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Don't Wait for Rock Bottom
Why the concept of "hitting bottom" keeps people drinking longer than they should
Dec 14
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Matt J
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Why We Don't See Ourselves as Different in Active Addiction
I was surrounded by family and friends who drank like me, or worse. Hard to see you have a problem when everyone around you does too
Dec 2
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Matt J
E254: Secrets, Shame, and Sobriety: Emily Redondo’s Story in Wife Mother Drunk
What happens when the picture-perfect life hides a private hell?
Dec 2
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Matt J
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November 2025
Acceptance Is Not Giving Up
Last week, I received a message through my Buzzsprout page that stopped me in my tracks.
Nov 25
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Matt J
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A Better 50 Than 40: Building a Stronger Body and a Sober Life
At midlife, I’m focusing on progress, not perfection — in health, recovery, and the choices that keep me alive and well.
Nov 11
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Matt J
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What Gratitude Looks Like When You’re Worn Out
Gratitude doesn’t erase the chaos. It just helps me stay grounded in it.
Nov 4
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Matt J
October 2025
We Agnostics and Me
Why Bill W.’s Arguments for God Still Challenge—and Inspire—My Sobriety
Oct 28
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Matt J
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September 2025
How Do You Read the Big Book?
It’s only 164 pages, yet it can be the most complex reading of your life
Sep 9
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Matt J
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Talking Sobriety & Emotional Healing on Mindful Constitution
Its about being sensitive
Sep 9
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Matt J
1
August 2025
Recovery Through the Lens of Neurodivergence
Finding strength, clarity, and sobriety in a differently wired brain
Aug 20
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Matt J
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I Almost Got Sake-Bombed at Hibachi
Staying sober means being ready when alcohol sneaks up on you—sometimes with fire and shrimp
Aug 6
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Matt J
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July 2025
Asking for help is hard. Accepting it is harder
Why asking for help is a sign of strength, especially in recovery.
Jul 15
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Matt J
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